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My 18th wedding anniversary is coming up in just a little over a week. I think back over the last 18 years and realize, it hasn't always been easy. Yet, my wife and I are more in love today than we were on that day in 1989. Why?
I believe it's all those trials and tribulations we've gone through. It's easy to stay in love when things are going great. Those times are easy to hold each other and have those stars in your eyes. But, that's not what real love is all about.
When you go through financial difficulties, illnesses, job losses, all the tough times that this life throws at you, that's when you know if someone will be there forever. Those are the times when you realize just how much someone loves you, and how much you love them.
Today, it seems that so many people are not staying with one another through the tough times. Those times come and they think to themselves, "I didn't sign up for this." They decide it's not worth it. Was it really ever love?
Love is more than a happy feeling we get. Love is more than a desire to jump into bed. Love is more than infatuation and lust. Love is realizing that this person is more important to you than having a good time, all the time. It's about being there for someone and them being there for you.
Pastor JR